How to break the ice in a video chat: 12 questions that actually work

Published on October 6, 2026 · 3 min read

In a random video chat you have very little time to make a good impression. A flat “hi” usually ends in “Next”. The good news is that breaking the ice can be learned.

Before you talk

Find good light: a window or a lamp in front of you, not behind you.
Smile. It sounds obvious, but it changes everything.
Add interests on Chispa. If they match, you already have something to talk about.

12 questions to get started

Where are you from? What time is it there?
What were you doing before you came here?
What song is stuck in your head?
What is the best food in your city?
If you could travel tomorrow, where would you go?
What show or anime would you recommend?
Are you more of a beach or a mountain person?
What is the strangest thing that has happened to you here?
What is your hidden talent?
What word do people use in your country that nobody else understands?
Tacos or pizza? (And defend your answer.)
What made you laugh today?

And if it does not flow

No big deal. Say goodbye on a good note and tap “Next”. In a random chat the next person is one click away.

Put it into practice

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